So to talk more about the physical things in my life that represent who I am and my background, I have included several pictures. I'll talk briefly about each one since, as they say, a picture is worth a thousand words!
My family

So here's a somewhat awkward family photo from Christmas. It's of me, my mom, my sister Maria, my grandma, my brother-in-law Nathan, and my brother Christian. Of course, the dogs made in into the photos since we're pretty obsessed with them. I am extremely close to my family. Since a lot of people say that, for emphasis, I should add that we're pretty abnormally close, bordering on claustrophobic, but I'm very much okay with that. Italian families (unlike Italian politics) are matriarchal in nature, so my grandma has been the head of our household. She and my mom have been the main decision-makers, so I have grown up around very strong women that I admire. I was raised by my mom and my grandma and we are all loud and overbearing when we're together. I also consider my relationship with my mother to not just be a mother-daughter relationship, but a friendship. This has really impacted my outlook on the way I view family. I don't view a traditional hierarchal family; rather, I see one based on friendship and understanding, and this allows me to really open up to my family more than most people would probably feel comfortable with.
My pets
The first picture is Sophie, my puppy (actually dog, but whatever). We've had her since I was in the 5th grade and she's been wonderful. Whenever I am sick, she sits with me. When I'm home, she follows me everywhere (as in I can't even go to the bathroom alone... score). But it's endearing. The picture below is of Lily, and the two below that are of Eleanor. They look identical, but they're actually from different litters. Long story short, we got them at the same time and they've grown up like sisters. We think Lily communicates with spirits (haha... no but really), as she likes to stare into space and move her head in circles. It's bizarre. Eleanor is obsessed with sinks and sits in my mom's sink all the time. She actually will meow at you until you follow her into the bathroom and pet her while she sits in the sink. They're just goofy little creatures.
Jewelry as symbols
Jewelry has always been a big part of my life, as my family has passed down several pieces of jewelry for generations. I also used to make jewelry when I was in high school and sold it. I wear much of the same jewelry ever day, as they are all different symbols for me culturally and religiously. The picture above is of my "13" or "tredici" pendant. It was my great-grandmother's from Italy.
Thirteen is actually a lucky number in Italian culture and seventeen is an unlucky number, which is definitely different from the American view of thirteen. "Tredici" was often said to those who have bad luck to bring them better luck in parts of Italy. While younger generations are starting to associate it with bad luck due to films and other negative representations from the US, older generations still stick to the tradition. It was passed from my grandma to me and I'm always wearing it. I also wear the
cornicello, which is basically the Italian version of wearing an evil eye. It's a very common Italian good luck charm that I'm sure many of you have seen. I also wear a Mary and Jesus medal, which is a tiny replica of
Our Lady of Perpetual Help. It's very common for Catholics to wear something that honors Mary, especially Italian Catholics. I also often wear several Italian gold rings, which have been passed down to me. I also often wear a gold snake ring, which is an ancient symbol of wisdom. My mom had one and got me one, as I've always loved them and what they represent. Most jewelry that I choose to wear has some sort of symbol attached to them.
Catholic Art
My favorite painter is
Raphael, who was a painter during the "Rinascimento," or Italian Renaissance. I'm sure many of you have seen his paintings, as they are extremely famous. He was commissioned by the Medici family of Firenze to paint many important political and biblical figures. My favorite painting is "Madonna della Sedia," meaning "Lady of the Chair" (because "Madonna" is old Italian meaning "my lady"). It's literally the Virgin Mary sitting in a chair holding Jesus. I think it's absolutely beautiful for a number of reasons. I have it hanging above my bed. At my mom's house, many depictions of the Virgin Mary and Jesus can be found hanging. Mary is very significant to Catholics for the acceptance of God without question and being conceived without sin for her destiny to be Jesus's mother. This is the religious narrative, but besides that, her place in the bible as a role model is key to understanding the honor placed on her. The second picture is from when I studied in Italy. It's the "
incorruptible"
Santa Caterina di Bologna. I just thought it was really cool, so I decided to include it, as it also shows the gorgeous, ornate churches of Italy. The picture is kind of blurry because I was physically shaking. It was one of the most interesting and overwhelming experiences of my life, perhaps because of how beautiful the setting is, or because I was in a room alone with a person who has been dead since 1463. Either way, incorruptibility/the picture is pretty sweet.
Wine
My grandfather was a winemaker (among several other things) and wine has always been a big part of my family. He used to drink wine, as when he was little in Italy, the water was not safe, so many people turned to wine. Chianti is my personal favorite. It's very strong, as it is the final pressing of the grapes. The taste is exquisite. I have a lot of useless knowledge regarding wine, so ask me things if you want to know more! The above bottle was one of my grandfather's.
Books
Ah, books. They are the best solace! I was always a bookworm growing up and my collection of books is pretty huge. This is only what I brought with me from home and I have a lot more at my mom's, but I'm running out of room on my bookcase. It's a problem. I need a bigger one, but a studio apartment isn't going to hold another bookshelf. Many of my favorite books are non-fiction history books. I also have a pretty sizable collection of
Khalil Gibran books. So you guys should all check him out.
Piano
I have played the piano since I was 6. I have my piano in my tiny apartment and it's taking up a lot of room, but it's worth it. I used to play drums and guitar (the former much better than the latter) and I also used to take voice lessons. Piano stuck with me the most out of all of those musical options. I love it and consider myself a pretty skilled pianist. Music has always been a huge part of my life, as my uncle and brother are amazing drummers (and my mom used to play), my sister is a skilled pianist and singer, and my brother-in-law is a music teacher. I also spend a lot of time listening to new things and really enjoy breaking down songs and focusing on various instrumentation.
Vintage everything
I avoided taking pictures of my entire apartment so as not to be creepy. Every piece of furniture I have is vintage and I have an Etsy shop where I sell vintage clothing. This love was instilled by my grandma, who used to take me to antique stores when I was little. I'm obsessed with antiques and love attempting to appraise things on my own. It's always been a side-love for me next to the political love that has taken over my life.
Roses
To end, my middle name is Rose, so I have been flooded with floral everything since I was little. So I basically have had no choice but to grow to love roses. So vintage rose things pretty much cover my apartment and I frequently wear them and it's become a big part of my aesthetic. Go me.
I talked about myself/culture/family way more than I had planned. But it's easy to talk a lot about something you know very well I suppose. I look forward to reading everyone else's journal responses to get to know you all better!